Take Charge of Your Masculinity

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By:Awando Brandon
    photo from google

 'A woman who loves you will always be shy to ask  for money'  a wise saying from the streets or maybe jaloka's timeline.

 You can relate . Any relationship where money/bribes/favours/materialism are  day in day out necessities then love is an illusion.A big lie.

 Life has taught me  that you always have to be at the top of your game. 

The only thing that makes you look like a clown to women is when you act like one, in every community boys are brought up knowing  responsibilities they have to undertake. Our fathers always talked about taking care and proving for a family, now how can you do that without  becoming a man?

 You have to step up and work your way out.Women date men who know what they are doing, a man who knows his way around stuff, a man who is masculine enough and am not talking about big sweating gym guys.

Nowadays I see what men are doing on social media to impress women and am deeply disgusted. How do you start putting on make up and dresses to impress women on social media. Who told you ladies like seeing men to act like them?

 Now listen  clown ,once you are done with the show they are gone. Women are naturally attracted to masculine men, do not go on apologizing to your girl, do not let her take control of you or your relationship. They do not like men bowing down to them you need to be confident and brave.

They will always be demanding for  care and attention,give it to them but remember this, you are the bigger person, whenever she is angry do not argue with her let her let out her anger and when she is calm take advantage of the situation and have a meaningful conversation. 

They want men who reason clearly and make important decisions because no woman can think like a man, for they are always thinking more than one thing and that is how they are.

Never beg for love because thats the road map to be treated like shit, the moment you get the right person it will feel right and you are going to enjoy having her. Do not force a relationship it will never work, do not let a woman take control of your life take charge and never be in a hurry to welcome someone in your life take it step by step.

 Simply do not be a simp.Be a man who is wanted and avoid doing stupid shows to impress girls who are only impressed by your masculinity

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