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By:Tellyoursonthis photosource:Shutterstock You don't Deserve Respect Just for being a Woman Being a man is not defined by whether you do or do not respect women. This is a moronic, brainlet take, based entirely on sentiment and self-interest, and has nothing to do with whether one is sufficiently masculine or not. Being sufficiently masculine does not mean being sufficiently moral or noble, or even a good person. There are many bad men out there, and they do not get their man card revoked simply because they do not possess your preferred ethics. Good or evil, masculinity is masculinity. There are different hues of masculinity, positive masculinity is based more on the patriarch model of paternalism, magnanimity, guardian/mentorship, directness etc. Negative masculinity is sociopathic. Both encompass territorial protectiveness, self-reliance and boldness. Positive masculinity = leader who prioritises the best interests of the group, cultivates/grows those under...

By:Tellyoursonthis source:Cosmopolitan If you decided to be a bad man because you figured out it was easier to get women being bad than it was being good (which is true) - then you're a slave to sex. Don't let women's attraction triggers define your morality for you. They are fools who reward toxic behaviour. They friendzone nice guys, date bad boys & complain their exes were abusive. They are obviously very poor judges of character, despite their so-called "intuition" - and even drawn to the evil and outright criminal - such men get many women Don't let their preferences guide you. A woman would reject a man for being unsuccessful or weak, but not for being ruthless or cruel. In fact, she would find reasons to rationalise how he in actual fact isn't really that bad and is just misunderstood. Women are attracted to masculine ruthlessness even when immoral. This is why they always complain about men, and have such a negative view o...

By:Tellyoursonthis source:Philosophy talk Feminists want a man that doesn't exist. They want a "real man" that is looked up to, but they also want a man that tolerates the selfishness and disrespect only a weaker man would. They thus seek an unstable contradiction - a man who is a leader, but enforces no boundaries. For feminist women, it's never about what they can do for others, but about what others can do for them. And so rather than either pick family or a career, they try to have both, in the same way they try to have two men in one. Such delusional greed is a recipe for failure. Committing to a feminist woman is an admission you don't think you can do better for yourself. It's for low self-esteem men. She will make you miserable, because they are selfish people. They always put their work before everything, which means you and your kids will get scraps. A high quality man doesn't need a workaholic hardened from competing with men a...